Feeling the Agony of Defeat, Life After Divorce

Having a long conversation with my girlfriend the other day we started discussing where our future is heading?  Dating 5 years now, we have had an incredible relationship with lots of laughs, travel, adventures, etc.  She has watched my daughters grow 5 years older into their teens and has also experienced my daughters growing 5… Continue reading Feeling the Agony of Defeat, Life After Divorce

The Agony of Sharing your Feelings in a “Safe Space”

I have been married for 18 years and divorced for over 5 years now, and I can tell you the moment when I think I understood that our marriage was not going to last. I have converted over the years to be an advocate for mental health services.  Psychiatrists, psychologists, etc, are all important when needing… Continue reading The Agony of Sharing your Feelings in a “Safe Space”

One BIG Thing to Make Divorce Less Painful

Getting divorced sucks!  I think we can all agree that it can be emotional up and down roller coaster that at times feels like there is no end.  Just a constant mixed-up cocktail of failure, sadness, anger, resentment, and disillusion.  And having those feelings is perfectly normal and okay.  But a time will come that… Continue reading One BIG Thing to Make Divorce Less Painful